What price beauty?

April 4, 2010

I once heard from a friend that your hair can get used to shampoo and so it’s a good idea to mix them about and use a different one each time you wash your hair. So ever since she shared her opinion, I have had two or three bottles on the go at once. Of course I know it’s a load of rubbish! I mean it’s not as if your skin gets used to soap or moisturiser and is no longer clean or soft to touch any more. But, you know, I like having that little choice to make in the morning, hmm am I a Brilliant Brunette today or do I want the aroma of some or other essential oil to waft about me at work as I toss my head in meetings or is it simply that I need to treat that flaky scalp? So every few months off I go to the shops, check out what they’ve got and add it to my little collection by the shower.

But it’s not quite that simple, not just a choice of a shampoo that smells nice, that suits your hair, that is within your budget. There is something else that we need to think about when buying shampoo, or clothes, or anything in fact!

There is an Oscar Wilde ‘fairy’ tale:  ‘The Young King’ who on the night of his coronation has three dreams which reveal to him the truth behind the robe, sceptre and crown that he is due to wear with such pomp and circumstance the following day: the cruelty, death and sadness that went into their creation. Upon awaking he cannot bring himself to wear them. “Shall joy wear what grief has fashioned?”  he says. It is a beautiful story that I recommend you read.

So how does this relate to shampoo?

There is a phrase that comes to my mind every time I buy something nowadays. ‘What is the True Cost?’ It repeats in my head like a mantra: True Cost, True Cost, True Cost. Because it’s not just about what you can and cannot afford to buy with the money you’ve got. It’s about what you can and cannot afford to buy with the world you’ve got.

Okay, so we know that in this country and other Western countries we have laws about fair wages and treatment of people, the way goods are created and what goes into them and so on, so that we can be fairly sure that what is manufactured here has been created according to certain standards – as long as those standards are reflected in law and adhered to by the companies involved. But I think that we have reached a stage where we take it for granted that therefore everything in the garden is lovely.

I would suggest that there are areas where we can make a difference:

Look at shampoo and cosmetics in general. What a huge industry! And I don’t criticise the use of cosmetics or the creation of them. Ever since there have been people, there has been a desire to improve on what nature has given us. We have used concoctions to make us more attractive, give us softer skin, shinier hair, rosier cheeks, whether that’s bathing in asses’ milk or creating a beauty cream in a factory by scientific methods. That’s great and one of the many ways in which people can use their creativity to make other people feel better. But what is the True Cost? I can think of a number of questions I’d like answers to before buying my skin cream: Does it work? Is it within my budget? – everybody asks those ones.

But how about: How much energy is used in creating it? How much pollution is incurred by its creation? Where is it created? Where do the ingredients come from? How are the employees treated? How does that company conduct its business? And it’s not necessarily true that so-called ‘natural’ products are any better for the environment, or pollute any less than more ‘chemical’ products (that are usually extracted from plants anyway).  How can you be sure that you want to buy that product until you know the answers to these questions and know what type of treatment of the world and other people you are supporting with your couple of quid.

I would suggest that this sort of information should be freely available if we want to make an informed choice.

What else?

Well here’s one: imported goods are not subject to the same laws as goods created in the UK. Hence a lot of cheap stuff in the shops. We think: ‘Brilliant! I can buy a t-shirt for 2 quid.’ But what is the True Cost? Bad publicity about use of child labour and the like has reduced the extremes of exploitation that UK consumers will accept. But there are subtler issues here. Aren’t these other countries’ workers entitled to the same fair wage that we get in this country? Could you in all honesty travel and talk to the people who made your tshirt for 2 quid, see their lives, working conditions, how far their wages go and still happily wear it?

Other countries may get away with producing goods using ingredients or methods that are no longer allowed in this country, for varying reasons. These methods or ingredients may make the products cheaper than UK goods. So by buying these cheap toys, or clothes or whatever, we again are saying that we are happy to support this, when we have outlawed those methods in our own country. I’m not trying to say that we should buy only british made goods or that all foreign produced goods are somehow dangerous or exploitative, but we either need more freedom of information or stricter import laws to support how we, as consumers, want other people and the environment to be treated. We cannot assume that this is already being done for us, and abdicate responsibility by saying it’s the shop’s fault or the manufacturer’s fault or the government’s fault.

We have the power to question the retailers and the manufacturers and the government. All it takes nowadays is an email to your MP, to a retailer’s or manufacturer’s head office. We have the power to only spend our precious money where we’re sure that we are supporting companies who trade the way we want them to trade. And there are already retailers who pride themselves on their approach to doing business fairly. We will only get more retailers like this if we tell them how to change and refuse to spend money there until they do.

Yes we want cheap goods, yes we want products that work. But let this mantra sing in your head, as you walk through the shops and pick out your purchases: What is the True Cost, the True Cost, the True Cost.

A child’s eye view – chapter one

March 20, 2010

I’ve been mulling over the current scandals in the Roman Catholic Church and thinking how I would explain it to my seven year old in a simple way. Sometimes when you think about how a child would view the situation, then the solution becomes more obvious.

Story

Once upon a time there were millions of people who love God. They thought that they could only get close to him if they joined a club. The club leader said that he and his helpers were the only ones who knew how to get close to God. And in fact when they spoke it was God speaking.

People enjoyed some of the activities in the club, and didn’t enjoy some others, but they had been told it all helped get close to God, so they carried on.

It turned out that that some of the helpers were hurting the children in the club and the leader and the helpers told the children to stay quiet about it, or they couldn’t be part of the club, couldn’t get close to God and couldn’t go to heaven. The helpers were still allowed to be in the club too, and some of them kept hurting the children. This went on and on, until now when some of the secrets have started to come out.

Do you think that the leader and his helpers are really doing what God wants?

So why are people still in the club when things like this happen?

They have been told since they were little that this club is the only way to show their love for God, and they do genuinely love him, they’ve just got mixed up and think that if they criticise the club they are criticising God. And they really do want to go to heaven and get close to God.

What would you do to help these people, my daughter?

Well Mum how about we tell them:

  • God is not the club, he looks at what’s in our heart, not what club we’re in.
  • This club sounds like it has gone a bit wrong. Shall we think of new ways to show our love for God, that aren’t centuries old?
  • God wants us to protect children so we could love God by protecting the children.
  • The club is not the only way to get close to God, you can get close to God by praying and singing wherever you are and in your own words!
  • If you like some of the church rituals, do them at home, bless bread and wine yourself and drink/eat in God’s name.

Would that work, Mum?

I don’t know shall we ask other people what they think?

Open goals

September 3, 2009

Being greener

My aim for this week, is to try to reduce our rubbish bags to one bag a week. Bit of a cheat that Child number 3 is at nursery every day so his nappies are disposed of there… I’m going to buy all my meat and fish at the fresh counter to reduce the packaging waste. And I’ll buy my fruit and veg loose too.

Whenever I read articles about climate change, I start wondering whether little things I do can really change things, it’s easy to just think that no-one else is doing it, so I won’t either.  If I publish my little changes on this blog, maybe someone will read it and be inspired to do something too.

Smiletrain

I’ve been thinking for a while that I’d like to raise funds for this charity that provides surgery for kids with cleft lip and cleft palate. It’s only about £150 to do the operation, very worthwhile. I just can’t think of a good way to raise money. As it’s sort of linked to cosmetic surgery, I wondered if I could do a sponsored use-no-cosmetics-at-all-for-a-few-months thing, but that seems a bit shallow to me now. What do you guys think?

On the up

Motherhood isn’t always a barrel of laughs, so here are a couple of things I do to keep happy.

  • Before I go to sleep I write a list of all the good things that happened each day, some really little, like the kids laughing and smiling, or a particularly tasty hot chocolate. I’ve got a nice book by my bed now of all the fun memories that I sometimes flick through to cheer myself up.
  • Meditation, although in the loosest possible terms. I just keep my eyes closed and imagine a flame of light inside my chest and the word PEACE in my mind. Sometimes I’m surrounded by acrobatic children and the telly’s on, but it still helps to do it for ten minutes.

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